Love is a human emotion. Human beings are capable of love when they are willing. Everyone says that Love Hurts but its not true in reality it is the loneliness ,rejection,ignorance which hurts.The thought and to be blunt the losing of someone hurts.
It is just our ignorant thought that love hurts but if we see before meeting this person and the time with this person how we felt…..I personally was filling all complete,everything beautiful ,everything I wished was as if complete and given to me…thus when this love thought gave me joy ,how can it now hurt….either I was not in love or what I thought is love was not love…..one of two has to be correct…which one….a question to self. In reality LOVE is the only thing that covers up all the pain and makes someone feel wonderful…..complete…..beautiful…..divine. Love is not something that we do. Love is something that we are. We can use somebody as a support to make ourselves loving or we can simply become loving. It is not somebody else’s quality, it is our quality. We are using the other person as a key to open this up. But we can also open it up from inside without the help of the other person. Then it is definitely more enduring because when we open it with the other person’s help – nobody not even ourselves are 100% reliable. This is just one thing I deeply realized and I can say I am healed ,not saying 100% am but let me be honest 99% healed and that 1% is just my mind which tries to tell me and show me those days and this moment…..just that I am very silly person I now question my mind back I was smiling and happy before I met the lover and I can and will be happy even after the lover is gone because I am I ,the I has or cannot change if I don’t listen to the stupid thoughts you create….the ego of mind gets hurt and it disturbs me less and less….grateful to the mind and Source which is helping me know that is I can do what it wants….either remain crying and create misery or be happy and make others happy….let me tell you if we can give a pure smile to others they bless us with energy of smiles and hey why lose what we are to get….just let go.
If we are trying to extract joy, love and pleasantness out of somebody, this is going to be disastrous for both the people. I by no means am saying that we need to live alone but all I am trying to say the way we are can be determined only by us. If this is so and we are here to share our love with people, if we are feeling wonderful and we want to share this with somebody, then it will be very beautiful. So be open and get over past so that the door to receive love through another is not closed and we ourselves our love to give love.
Understand a little this
love is no more there
why the need to hate the other
nobody destroyed it,nobody cheated
nobody had created it even
just a soft sweet breeze came
both enjoyed the moments deep
time to be grateful and thankful
to the person and Thee
time to get up now
allow self to move again
life has not ended dear
walk and jump again
making and giving promises to each other
not that we or they were lying or deceiving
in those beautiful great moments
promises seemed to be coming from the heart.
since those moments are gone now
and the other has also gone
those sweet love promises too will be gone
it seems we are broken and fallen down
but ask are we going to remain in this state for eternity
we need and we all will rise someday
this very moment we start rising and let go
the beautiful mind has great plans
bringing memories of entanglements, promises of each other
to create the complexity.
but see rising in love is spiritual.
falling in love is biological.