It is always we who carry our own wound. With the ego, our whole being is a wound. If we deeply see nobody is interested in hurting us, nobody is positively waiting to hurt us as everybody is engaged in safeguarding their own wound. No one has got the energy but it still keeps happening because we are actually eagerly ready to be wounded like just waiting on the brink for anything.
Only when we become like Tao (means religion, means nature ,means form. The Supreme Law of Existence is Tao. ) There is in reality no wound for him as he is healthy, healed, whole.The word whole is beautiful and the word heal comes from the whole, and the word holy also comes from the whole. He is whole, healed, holy.
We need to be aware of our wounds and we need not help it to grow instead let it be healed and it can only be healed when we move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal; with no head there is no wound. The best way to live is living a headless life. We must move as a total being and accept whatever comes and happens.
We need to practice it daily for some days, the whole 24 hours we need to be in total acceptance, whatsoever happens. If someone insults us or what we say hurts us we need to accept it and not react to see what happens. The mystics say suddenly we will feel an energy flowing in us that we have never felt before. Let us try and be aware and with each of us doing this we will create only Love and Compassion and Happiness in this world of ours for this wonderful life journey.