Relationship – mirror

The people in our lives who make us uncomfortable, who annoy us, who we feel judgmental or even combative toward, reflect parts of ourselves that we reject — usually aspects of our disowned selves, the shadow side of our
personality. If we are a gentle, soft-spoken person, we may be very irritated by a person who seems loud and pushy. Or if we are a direct,outspoken person we may feel uncomfortable with those who hold back and seem overly timid.